I've been dating this girl for about 4 months and she has really pretty long dark hair with slight curls in it and I found it very attractive on her and I met her in that style. However just the other day she went out and got her hair cut shorter than chin length and i had no clue she wanted to do that she just came back like that. Should I be honest and tell her she looked more attractive with longer hair in my opinion or just lie and say I like the hair cut? Also is just going out and cutting your hair short without mentioning it normal to you guys? I find it odd to be that impulsive and I wish I could have been more involved in helping her with a new look if she wanted to try something new. What do you think? What should I do?
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
I think it's important to tell her how you feel. But when you do it (if you decide to talk to her about it) don't be angry about it or accuse her of acting strange or whatever... j
Just simply say that you liked her long hair better and hope that she'll let it grow out. Come on it's hair, you might not like the short hair, but it will grow back..... BTW I wouldn't mention that she looked more attractive with the long hair, just say you liked her long hair better....=) Ask her if it was an impulsive act and just be happy for her if she likes her new look.
I would let it go, it's just her hair. It wouldn't be worth getting in a fight over if you truely care for her. Just let her know you felt hurt she didn't include you in trying something new. Hopefully she'll feel touched that you care.... if you approch her in the right way about it.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
She just wanted to change her looks and there's nothing wrong with that.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
Dont do anything!! Might as well go with the flow and after it grows out more mention that you "really like her hair longer". Woman change their hair without thinking about what their men will say. Dont take it personally..were just crazy!
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
I find it odd that she didn't even mention it to you, but she doesn't need your permission to cut her hair. I'd just tell her that you would have appreciated her mentioning it, but maybe she was ready for a change. It will always grow back.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
Short hair is for guys! You better hope she doesn't have any impulses that involve other guys.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
Ya guys hate that. Normal. Just let her know you miss her long hair.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
it's her body you should support her besides I think short hair is sexier give it a chance
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
I think you should be honest with her. In relationships, honesty is always the best thing to do. You shouldnt be afraid to tell your girlfriend the way that you feel. You should be able to trust her. If she was a good girlfriend, she would understand.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
please dont telll her you dont her it!! theres nothing a girl hates to hear more than that their boyfriend doesnt like the way they look! if anything, tell her its cute, but her long locks were sexier. Theres no rule that says you have to tell your boyfriend before you get your haircut, its a spur of the moment thing sometimes
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
I do that. I tell people I'm getting a hair cut then get it all cut off (everyone thought I meant cutting like 2 inches off). Last time I got mine cut "boyishly" short. Like... 2 inches long. My boyfriend said it was okay but he liked it better long so I'm growing it out again. It was fun while it lasted (It's still barely over my ears but it's growing fast!).
Tell her what you really think. I'm sure your opinion will mean something to her. Also be understanding that it was her choice to cut her hair in the first place. Good luck.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
Hey, not to be offensive in any way but you need to let her know you don't appreciate her doing things about her appearance. Say she was beautiful how she was and thats the way the girl you were attracted to and you didn't want it to change. I'm not the guy to ask. hell i can't get a date.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
okay yeah hair grow.
but hmm... this is hard. Yeah its pretty normal for girls to go out and cut their hair without telling their bfs.
But if you tell your bf that you like it she might keep it that way thinking that you like it better now.
But if you say you liked it better the way it was then she might get bad. And go home and cry and regret cutting it.
Maybe you should tell your gf that you like that way she looks and you don't care if her hairs long or short.
My girlfriend went out and cut her hair really short spontaneously without telling me she planned to?
I think it is her hair to cut if she wants to and your opinion doesn't mean anything. Most men don't give a rat's butt about women's hair. They just want them to have some.
It's obvious that her long hair meant a lot to you. Why not tell her that your self centered and only attracted to her hair and not to the rest of the package. Women love to hear that! Tell her that next time she wants to make such a personal decision that she needs to clear it with you first. How dare she try to surprise you with a new look! By the way "really short" hair is not a chin length bob, it's a crop or a pixie style. And this may be news to you but bob's by most guys hair standards are actually considered feminine fashionable and sexy. Well don't worry about expressing your true feelings for her former look. I'm sure that she can always find someone else who can appreciate her for who she is and not just what length she prefers to keep the dead cuticles protruding from her scalp. Peace
ReplyDeleteI think that you should respect her decision. I wouldn't lie to her but just express that you like long hair better than short and it will take some getting use to it. However, your girl is not required to get your opinion about anything like this unless you put a ring on it. And since you didn't your opinions are minimum.
ReplyDeleteI think she was inconsiderate. She should have warned you if she knew you love her long hair.
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